I have kept the fans off for last 2nights, adjusted thermostat in house (to hope we all can be comfortable), closed bedroom window.
H came to bed around 4am this morning,,,I told him "I hate that basement couch, I like you sleeping in bed with me"
Now I have decided I'm done with the issue, H knows exactly how I feel, I made adjustments so he will not be too cold, and I will not be too hot. It's now up to him, I have no plans on bringing it up to him again about where he sleeps in the house. I will mention it here if I think it might be showing signs on H returns or not,,but not going to mention it to H and it is no longer a goal related to my M.
I'm not going to put any more energy into that issue.
I watch a few of DB videos on youtube yesterday...they were very helpful. I'm going to work on letting my H know I desire him I love him, by speaking his love langauge of touch and compliments..going to expirement with small touches, compliments, hugs etc,,,and watch his response. I will go very slow...going to speak his love langauge for a while and watch reactions...
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
