I think that we are so involved in trying to save our M that we forget who we are/were. The rejection is so painful that we beg and plea for them to change their mind. We forget at times that we werent happy either. We get really lost. This is a really confusing time Shinning. Dont try and make sense casue it wont. You will make yourself crazy. Just feel what is happening. For example I fantasize that ex will email me begin for forgiveness and want to come back. Not sure why my brain is doing that since getting back together is not an optoon for me. The process takes time.
Keep doing what you are doing. You doing good
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
