Raliced - Climbing Without a Rope

[Ahoy]

Sorry about all that, raliced. Lisa is just a symptom, so don't waste any energy thinking about her, although it's terrible to think that your kids have to be around her. If you're lucky, she will turn out to be a good person and be a positive force in your kids life, but it could take years to get to a place of peace with that, given how the situation has come about.

At least you have clarity and conviction going into the D. The process will not be fun, but just know that it won't last forever, and that you'll come through this just fine. And will emerge stronger and better.