That might be the case but that highlights that she has her own issues to deal with. If your keeping on top of the house then what's wrong with that its certainly better than it being an unpleasant environment.

If you dated someone new and their place was a tip because they couldn't cope - how many more dates would their be? Remember part of this is about being attractive and being in control of your own life is surely part of that.

I know my W was annoyed with my increased housework because she was frustrated that I 'could just turn it on like that' I didn't tell her it was because I stopped caring whether she thought I was doing it wrong.

Last edited by jim0987; 10/22/14 08:27 AM.

Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress