I appreciate that. I just don't know of any counsellors in my area that are supportive of marriage in the same way as DB/DR. My wife and I don't have communication issues as such. We don't have blazing rows or bicker, we just have different ideals when it comes to the marriage. For her, the trust is broken and will never be regained and she is convinced that the incidents that have broken her trust are for the reasons she believes - not for the reasons I give.
Any help in locating a suitable counsellor would be gratefully received.
