Forget about asking for an apology. You need to reframe your perception of the power relationship between the two of you. She has you pinned to the ground with the cold tip of a gun to your head. You don't get to ask for an apology. You don't get to ask for anything. Not even to offer something like help or talk. She's in complete control and that's exactly how she wants it. All you can do is validate her. You have to accept her point of view on everything, or at least show her that you do. You don't want that gun to go off because she gets angry.


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.