This (below) is an utter waste of time. Worse, it deflects from the real work you have to do, on yourself. Stop that.
I marked the parts of this that you have NO control over and which should not be on your radar at this stage...
Originally Posted By: billman12
Just curious, what will be going through my wife's mind during the time that the affair begins to end. How will she know and how will she behave. What starts that process where she begins to realize what is happening. From what I have been reading people in the midst of an affair are illogical, addicted, and complete liars; what is the "bomb" for them?
Who lied to whom? Why are you SO eager to fault her?
Why aren't you wondering how the heck YOU could have treated her so badly for so long?
Let me put it this way...is there ANY reason for me to post to you anymore?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
