Wow, what a turnaround! I hope she reclaims her faith, that might help her. That was a touching moment, you hanging the cross on her neck.
At this time I would be full of hope and expectations, and then devastated when she pulls away again, because that seems like the cycle, right? Dance forward, dance back, come in for a closeup, and then pull back. Throw out hope, and then run away.
This should be a cautious time, I think. I am rooting for you to stay as detached as possible. And congrats on the raise!
M:54, H:55 T:33, M:27 12/13 BD: EA 01/14 BD: PA, H leaves 03/14 H & OW break up 05/14 H says he will file for D 08/14 H initiates D 09/14 H wants to R 12/14 Still bungling our way through R
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