The dating is a personal choice. Although it's hard to condemn your W for Adultery when you're doing it to.
Plus it's not fair to the new person knowing that you're just using them as a ploy to get your W back and to get your rocks off.
You've only been at this for one month and need someone already? If you don't love yourself enough and need someone else to "make" you feel happy, then you might as well sign the papers now and do it cleanly.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.