I will say that during my last S, (like this one not official, W in A while still at home) I did eventually see someone else. I don't know if it was effective per se but it did seem to bother her. And the person I was with knew my sitch and was very cool with it short term. I broke it off after a month tho, it just didn't feel right though it did satisfy some temporary needs! I don't think I'll be doing that this time.
M: 33 W: 33 M: 9 T: 10 3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5 BD: 8/3/14 Living together