Eric... how did I offend you in my response to Smurf? I am apologizing for the mix up & taking some responsibility and offering an explanation. Why would I want her (or anyone) to be ill-informed...how does that help her to understand my sitch better or for me to receive proper advice based on truth?... I don't get it... am I supposed to let it slide and ignore it?
For many that post...
Often, it is the behavioral patterns, that our posts are directed towards more so than the direct events in each sitch...
Everyone that posts to you, "gets it"....
The details really aren't THAT important...( yes, really)
It is your behavioral patterns that send up the red flags.