I don't know that you can really predict whether you will feel like taking her back or not. WAS could change her mind tomorrow or 5 years down the road, or never really. Just one of those bridges you have to cross when you come to it I would think. I don't remember where I saw it today but I saw a quote this morning that comes to mind. "Where the mind leads the heart will follow, if you let it." If that day comes and you have the road paved home you might decide its best for everyone and take that chance. But at least you are doing the work to have a happy life regardless.


M: 43 W: 43
Married 6 yrs.
T: 7 yrs.
Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10