Is this normal?

[Ahoy]

elltee, that is a short period between marriage and where you are now. Detach and work on yourself. Don't focus on her and her issues, because you won't be able to resolve them or convince her in the error of her ways. If she comes around, so be it. If not, count your blessings that at least you weren't coming to this conclusion with her twenty years down the line. You are young and have years of joy, and possible other partners, awaiting you. Take care of yourself and you will be fine.