So we agreed on the temporary order and it will be filed by her attorney. I went to pick her up today because she is having vehicle issues and we went to make a few adjustments. She claims she told me that we could use the same attorney for this so it would not be as expensive. I have absolutely no recollection of that conversation. I was rather shook up at ground zero time however and I may have missed that, but I really don't think I would miss something that huge. I have an excellent attorney, and I don't think she likes that. Anyway, she also restated that the D is my fault, basically because I would not blindly share my pay check with her after she moved out with the kids.
My latest concern still is that I'm not going to "feel like" caring enough to want her back after things are settled. I think I'll still be able to muster up the discipline to keep at it anyway however. I can see she is stressed, not sleeping, and overwhelmed trying to do all this on her own and it makes me feel sad for her.
Me:40 W:39 M:Dec 95 Split: Jul 14 W Filed: 9/16/14 Several Children (including adopted)