Gogofo - no longer piecing 2nd BD

[gogofo]

Had first coaching session last night and it was great. I told her my marital history and she had some good insight into us and the situation that I had not considered or thought of.

She offered support and hope and I was feeling really charged about working on my DBing. I know I get too high and don't have realistic expectations when I start into it, but she has me feeling optimistic now.

I need to recenter and be more realistic about where my situation is. I know my excitement during our attempted reconciliation had me avoiding big questions and issues in our R.