hey Magic! I just wanted to remind you how to find any poster's old posts. Click on his or her name (in the column on the left, next to their message). A drop down list will come up. Click on "view posts" - a grid will come up with all of that poster's posts. To see those he or she created, click on "topics created." I did that with Sunshine Lewis, and found her old posts back to December 2008 in ten seconds flat.
I'm sort of sad to see so little progress in your sitch since I last checked in on you; I think last May when my D was finalized. Best of luck to you, and my advice to you stays the same - detach, let go, move forward, move on, God bless.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17