Wow, that is the exact same script I got from my W after I moved back home and had the NC talk. How she feels bad, they're just friends, I'm scared he will do something if I cut him off crap. I will admit, it took some me a while to build up the courage to stand up and say its over or I'm gone, but I would not be where I am now if I had not. As long as she has any contact with OM you're most likely just spinning your wheels and making no true progress with fixing your M.

For me, it was change phone number, block OM number even though hers was changed, and full transparency with every device we own.


separated since 9/01/13
M-31
W-36
D-4
Move back home 12/26/13
3 months of tough times
Finally in a happy M