How life has changed....spending morning interviewing mediators and arranging with STBX's attorney to be served with papers.
I keep wondering if STBX is really in MLC. My DB coach thought so - but when I read the thread about "Chaos kids" I have to say they don't really fit him. He has some issues with his Dad- but overall had a pretty stable childhood. It didn't really matter before - because my DB approach was the same, but now that we are actually divorcing I worry about his behavior more (some of the stories on the MLC board are pretty scary).
