Recent Separation...trying to cope

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I need to find that book again and just read through that so I understand what I will need to do be more romantic for my future relationship whether it be with my W or someone else. I do some those things on occasion, but I know there are far more things out there that I can do to create a romantic relationship.

There were times when I didn't, but like I have mentioned, it was hard for me while going through the whole porn thing and feeling ashamed about it to the point where I just couldn't do it when she wanted it. Don't get me wrong, throughout my marriage I have loved my wife with all my heart and this was the the biggest hindrance in giving my all sexually. I do desire my wife and still do, that is why I am here to get help along with things I have been doing to get myself in a better position in the M.

I am going to a Therapist for all the issues I am having with the whole situation including the porn addiction and it has helped A LOT. I feel a lot better about myself and more confident about changes that I continue to make for myself.

MrBond as critical as you have been, I am grateful for your suggestions and opinions. I am looking within myself to make the changes to make my future relationship much more fulfilling.