I cannot accept that this is it.

[Mozza]

I'm curious what advice you'll get from the vets. To me, it seems you shouldn't think of it in ways of controlling her. With our WAW, we set boundaries, but we don't make choices in order to ruin their relationships or the fun they're having without us. We'll be part of the problem again. If you really want to spend time with your kids, you should go for it. You'll have a better time. Ask yourself: would I spend this time with the kids if we were back together? If the answer is yes, you're making real change in the right direction. You're becoming the involved dad that she's looking for. Again, let's see what the vets have to say.