I am so sorry smurf.. thats not what I meant... I meant to say that your opinion is off because somehow it was either written wrong or taken wrong. I am not out to make you wrong... but to somehow right the circumstance/situation. I hope you understand.
As identified, the reason I clarify, explain, come across as argumentative is due to the fact that I am genuinely seeking closure. I feel that to get this, the REAL truth needs to be mentioned.
For example (not to point you out): "IF" your opinions of my Xbf or myself are based on a few of the above mentioned comments, then I could see your point. However, if some need tweaking... would your opinions be the same? (possibly not).... Like the comment you made where I didn't follow through with my evening with my DD... but, I DID.. .and therefore she felt good (not like you suggest) and I wasn't quite the puppy dog you are making me out to be. ... if other readers read what you thought... I come across as a big puppy dog, puppet..waiting... not fair, because its not the truth... and then others chime in on how they agree. Should this not be clarified?
I am really genuinely wanting your opinion (based on full truth), of how I am childish in what I thought was a valuing self response to him, when he expected/asked me to jump to go pick him up.
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