Thanks Gwen,

She states that she slowly lost her connection from me over the years. It has been a long time since we were on the same page sexually, me being more needy and her less. It probibally started there for me which made me feel rejected and began to withhold from her. The intamacy issues probibally prompted the MLC and possibly a emotional connection with a OP for her (although she denies it and I don't think so).

I try not to talk of it and give her space but she looks sad and I want to hold her...and she begins the relationship (or lack of ) talk. Yes, I have goals that I have set.

I'm sorry you went through what you did, my kids are younger. How did they take the news? How do you prepare them?


W-43 H-41 M-19 T-21
Kids S-15 D-13 S-11
OM/EA/PA suspected 7/4/14
Talk of Seperation 7/5/14
Slept in same bed, held each other nightly until 2/1/15
W moved out 2/1/15
I am moving on