Fresh separation - trying to play by the book

[Mozza]

I'm in a good place this morning. After reading the amazing list of GAL activities from 25yearsmlc, I decided to start my own. I just have a few ideas and I'd rather have acted on them before sharing them.

Also, after repeating to everyone here that their spouse has to go through their journey before coming back, I'm starting to believe it for myself. Instead of living day to day, analyzing every sign, I need to see this as a holiday and make the best of it. I already keep busy, but I'd like to do more NEW stuff.

Today's anecdote shows that my analysis is biased anyway (pessimistic). I shared a video on Facebook and my wife re-shared it saying "Thank you H!" I thought: of course, she likes the topic, she doesn't care about me. Then I realized that if she'd done the same thing to someone else, I'd have thought: "Lucky him, he found something she loves". Interestingly, while my head engaged in the analysis, my heart was not really affected. Usually, these things tie me in a knot for a while, but this time it was more curiosity.