I am sorry, if many of you feel that the questions I ask are the same over & over. I see it differently.
Of course you do. That's a key part of the issues you have, and what you need a good IC to help you with. You see EVERYTHING differently, MM . . . EVERYTHING needs to be qualified, explained, rationalized, "corrected," etc. You do this with us, you do this with your xBF and I suspect it is a huge part of why he pushes you away.
I mean, think about it: if you saw things clearly, you're obviously a bright, capable woman -- you'd be able to fix it. The fact that you don't see your sitch clearly (many of us don't, when we're in it) is part of your dysfunction.
