Originally Posted By: jim0987


Otherwise focus on you and your kids. You were the first to say it to me so let me hold that mirror up. Be a man only a fool would leave and if she doesnt see it then she's a fool and you deserve better.



I was saying that to myself at circuits last night in my head to keep pushing myself . Did the trick .

My problem is that I'm not likely to see W for her to see my changes .


Me 40
W 37
Together 22 years
S18
D12
WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months
W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life
After the 2 weeks she has left .