Thank you, so much. It's funny... I have less doubt about my own ability to move past this and "fix" what I contributed to the mess of our "old marriage" than I do about my W's... She knows she is dealing with a deep compulsion to act out sexually and that lying and manipulating and, perhaps most importantly, dissociating herself from her actions, had become completely normal for her.
But, like I said... eyes wide open, with love.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
