Keeping it real

[Ahoy]

Zeus, I think DB would say don't initiate anything -- let wife do all the work. That being said, if you feel that the situation is untenable and you have to look out for yourself, then do so. It also might jolt her into realizing the reality of the situation. I too struggle with these legal issues (check my thread). My H and I did separate our finances early in this process -- just a couple of days after BD -- at my initiation because I didn't think I could trust him. Still don't.

Kudos on the job! Sounds like an exciting opportunity with great potential!