standing for me

[Ahoy]

Thanks raliced. I'm really torn. I may have to be in a situation where one of us gets summers and holidays, and I have to recognize that this person could end up being me if I choose to move. It's not what's best for D14, but having an unemployed mother with no support far from home and a head full of brain tumors that need monitoring is not good either. (My boss will be retiring and with her will likely go my contract job.) Like they say on the planes, you have to put the oxygen mask over yourself first. But I hate the idea of not having my daughter in my life in a more constant way. It's bad enough that I get her only every other week.