standing for me

[Ahoy]

I have two job offers in a different state for the fall. Really amazing opportunities. It's in my home state, where I have family, friends, and support. My H and I plan to pursue a dissolution in January, and do shared parenting. I think this is the more peaceful, amicable, cheaper, and faster route, but I worry about my possible need to relocate in the future. My H has said he would consider moving to that state if I had an opportunity, but it could just be lip service to keep me from filing for D and pursuing custody. Any advice?

I'm assuming the dissolution is a done deal. I'll keep my mind open, but H shows no signs of wavering, and it's just a couple months away. And frankly, I'm done.