You want to know how u are like I was? Some examples for you 1....I asked the same questions over and over and over. People gave me the same answers over and over and over. I kept asking hoping I would hear what I wanted to hear.....didn't happen, people just got tired of talking to a wall. 2....Defensive...I defended my actions AFTER I asked for opinions and people took time to help me. 3....I kept going thru he!! Because I refused to except things, it was a long rd. 4.....Manipulative! Thought I could manipulate my ex into doing what I wanted. 5....Naive.......believed every word that came out of his mouth and LOST everything financially possible. Believed him right up till he met and remarried someone else. Hung on every promise and crumb until it almost destroyed ME! 6.....co dependent!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Fear of being alone, so I would settle for just spending some time with him, sex included.
It really sickens me to read your posts sometimes because I want to reach out and shake u to the core. I remember being this hardheaded so well.
Seriously get help now!
Hi smurf glad to hear from u and thanks for the compliment. It's been a long road and as job said still trying to improve.
