Thanks, all. Glad to have some new blood along for the ride.
No mindreading, PM, got it. Although, what's to read? I thought the question was inappropriate, declined the offer. I suppose I will know I have dropped the rope when the confusion is secondary (or nonexistent), and when my behavior is marked only by dignity and friendship toward the mother of my children. All this without concerning myself with "Why".
Real life intruded on me late tonight - and is why I'm up and not sleeping soundly. D8 vomited all over my bed. I am pretty sure the top layer of my Sleep Number mattress is ruined. I took it off, doused it in enzymatic cleaners, and rinsed in the tub. We'll see how it goes. Kinda funny, really, compared to the rest of today.
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Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20
