Wow. That could be me talking. You nailed it U-turn! That's exactly how I feel, word for word.

I know you can't give this to her. I couldn't give it to my W. It would be "pressuring". But yeah, it's certainly healthy to put it down in writing. Good work!

M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014