Going Down Hill

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So much for being calm...W got home from her mom's with the kids. We put the kids to sleep. I wanted to tell her that I was not going to be called a loser. I told her that I wanted to talk. She said she did not want to talk. I tried to talk over her and tell her what I wanted to say. Things got a little heated. I feel like this is it. It's over. There is nothing else I can do. All this and I just want her to see that maybe all the trouble with our marriage was probably some minor communication issues. She always said she said it was both of our fault the marriage failed. Now she says that this is not her decision to leave. It is a concequence of our poor marriage. I don't understand that at all? If she would just talk civil.