H sent me a text this morning saying that he misses me and misses the kids "horribly". He went on to say that, "None of us sees very far into the future" and wonders if it will ever feel important for me to talk to him again. I texted back that I missed him also and that I was sorry for not answering his previous texts. I said he is missing so many things regarding our daughters since we've separated. I told him that he is free to come over any time whether I am there or not but that I probably won't be able to stay for his entire visit until I have completely detached. I asked if I could email him from time to time and he said my emails are ALWAYS welcome even if he doesn't like the message. I know I need to continue working on detaching and GAL-ing. Any other suggestions? I really had to fight the urge to bring up OW.
Me: 54 H: 58 Married: 29 years Together 33 years H admitted to A: 5/29/14 H moved out :6/15/14 OW lives 4 hours away and "occasionally" stays weekends with H D23 D18
