How to start rebuilding? - 2

[Hoju]

I did not know you could unfollow on facebook, I've only recently started to use it while GAL to reconnect with old friends.

I read the detachment artical months ago, perhaps detaching is not really what I meant. I believe I've been detached from my W for years, I loved her for who she was and would try to build her up and encourage her beliefs and interests. I never tried to force or alter her to fit into my ideal image of who I thought she should be. I believe she was far too attached to me and when I didn't share that same deep all encompassing attachment she became unhappy and felt there was something wrong.

Perhaps I mean direction in life? Maybe it's the GAL portion I'm stuggling with. I do lots of things, have lots of friends, a solid family, good job, well educated and am financially stable. However, everything seems empty and rather pointless now. I'm putting all of my efforts for my future by trying to save my marriage, which has yet to bare any fruit. I feel like my entire life is in stasis and there is nothing more I can do about it, that doesn't involve giving up on my M.