She probably did tell you or complained in the beginning, but you either blew her off or didn't think that was she said was important to her. It's not up to the spouse to be a better communicator, it's up to you to be a better listener. Just because you didn't think there were issues, doesn't mean that she felt the same.
Maybe so, but it's a moot point now that she refuses to speak to me and is living with her affair partner.
M 16 T 17 W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14 ILYBNIL 5/14 A discovered 6/14 D papers served via USPS 8/14 Filed my response 9/14 D final 5/15...