Thanks guys it is amazing how each situation is idfferent yet the feelings and emotions for us all are the smae. I just keep reminding myself that all this has brought clarity and the only one I can work on is myself. I cannot change her mind or thoughts on the matter I can only work on me. If the new me is something she wants then the path to home is clear and door always open. Bought some more books and they are currently on their way.
Me 38 WAW 40 S 10 S 5 M 5 years BD 10/04/14 S 10/04/14
