I'm struggling with what it means to be friends when you want the relationship back. My SO needs time since he's been M 4x and likely didn't have enough time to heal. It's 4 months now and we are 3000 miles apart. He recently said if I was there it would be different. Now he went dark because he feels he's hurt me and doesn't want to cause more. I'm wanting to tell him I've fully forgiven him and want to spend some time where he now lives but I'm wondering if that will push him away. How do I know when to give more vs. move away more?
