Magic, I never left, I just didn't post to you. There comes a time when I have to step away and allow you to hit that brick wall until you finally begin to understand that you can't fix, push or manipulate him. The only person you can fix is yourself and you do have some issues that you need to delve into w/a professional. If you don't learn about yourself and why you have these issues, they'll continue to haunt you for the rest of your life and yes, they will be this huge elephant in the room in any relationship that you have.
Sunshine went through the h@ll and back and finally began to see the light of day. No, she didn't reconcile w/her h. She still has a few issues to resolve, but I believe she's working on them to make herself a far better and happier person. So, yes, Smurf gave you a heads up on Sunshine's threads and you should read them. She struggled, stomped her feet and didn't understand the process, but she finally let go and that's what you need to learn to do...let go!
This board, the people here are wonderful and they try to help each other, but let's face it, your problems run a bit deeper than what we can assist you with. It's time to go a step further and seek some professional counseling in order for you to better understand yourself.
Smurf, What a pleasant surprise and I'm glad to see you came by for a very short visit.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
