whatever you do, do NOT act as if you are a victim. (But I know your concern is you don't want to seem "too happy" b/c you think she will believe you are "just fine" with a divorce.)
But there is no way she'd really believe that. She won't believe you have done a total 180 and suddenly "don't care" about the marriage. IF you begin to wonder about it, it's b/c you are trying to convince yourself to pursue her and that's NOT called for at this time.
Back off - like she asked. Plus you have to show that you are not irrational or unstable. NO OFFENSE MEANT by that, but when a protective order is issued on you, it's something you need to deal with.
Okay?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016