Definitely don't send her the message. That's YOUR thinking and you're still taking on all the blame for your R failing. More of the same which didn't work the first time.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER