I would like us to understand each other and go to MC. When I mentioned it on Friday she said she "doesn't have the time for MC" which is pretty much the truth.
I agree with everything MrBond said, although I do think you should try to fill her love bucket (only a flood of flowers and cards is probably not going to do it, though). But I feel like I should second his take on this specific point. You both have to make your M your #1 priority, behind safety and necessities of your children. If she literally has no time to work on your M, then her life is in absolute turmoil. I'm assuming she has somewhat normal responsibilities, though, in which case there IS time. Like Bond said, she doesn't want to.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23