Thanks, Lisa. Already checked out your thread and left a little advice.
Spoke to BF this morning regarding some more logistics. I have some things in his garage that need to be removed and were supposed to be gone by yesterday, but I'm waiting on a friend with a trailer to get her rear in gear. I explained this morning in a short text what the hold up was, and he was polite and accommodating in return. Even said "No worries, don't sweat it" with a smiley face.
Grrr, show some emotion, dude! You just blew up an 8 year relationship.
Okay, I know, I know -- don't focus on him or his emotions...or lack there of.
This morning, I was invited to a Hindu friend's home for a Diwali (dee-vali) celebration on Thursday, in which they light candles and offer prayers for prosperity and good fortune for the coming year. And then they feast!
I'm very much looking forward to it, as the Indian culture is beautiful and Hindu faith often matches with my own spiritual core. It will be nice to put my soul's efforts into something of this nature.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
