The facebook thing just popped up in my news feed. I guess I could unfriend everyone but that seems a bit extreme. I think I'll be ok going forward it was just the initial shock of how real it is now.
I guess this is where I get confused with how to DB. Aren't you suppose to be the man only a fool would leave? Wouldn't that man buy you something just because? It's not like I bought her diamond earrings or trip to italy, it was just a small gesture and one of opportunity at that.
DB hasn't seemed to do anything for me thus far and I would say my M has a lower chance of success then it did 3 months ago when I started. How long am I suppose to play uninterested and moving on? I'm seeing good signs and baby steps but all the large true indicators are still pointing to D.
I can't be both attached and detached at the same time. If I truely want to detach I need to go all in and get out dating again. Although I'm pretty sure this goes against what would be recommended for DBing. This passive endless tredding of water while the tide keeps drifting me further and further from shore is just killing me. I need to start swimming, either to shore (W) or to a life boat (someone else).
