Grey, so sorry to hear this. What a tough process for you. I agree, I would not wish this on my worst enemy.

This pain is going to seem so hard right now, but like this whole process, with time and distance, the pain will dissipate.

Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed