Not Confused...Insane in the Membrane

[BRNR]

Checking in....

I read some of the boards last week and noticed all my people are gone...and unfortuneatly a whole new crowd is around. Sorry newbies!

Well, a message to all the newbies...going through this experience will change you. I reflect back to things at bomb drop and now and WOW! I amaze me in new ways every day.

So an update on the non-sitch...
Shmoopie is still on the hamster wheel i feel sorry for him in so many ways. I hope he learns about life soon...

Shmoopie took me to court interim of the divorce to have a judge force the sale of our home (which I have maintained and lived in) and reduce his support. Judge said basically No...a week later his attorney is asking my attorney if I will concede to eliminating the order and his responsibilities?!?! Uh NO. This made me laugh...what kind of a lawyer does he have?

OW was introduced to the family at a funeral...my source says it did not go well and she was shunned for the most part.

Kids ...they are growing and learning in this process...their relationship with Shmoopie is bad and OW is still being forced on them...They each have thier own way to cope...my oldest keeps himself busy while the little one just expresses his emotions.

Me...I am doing great emotionally. I feel strong enough to deal with any obstacle that comes my way. Work is better, my relationships with my friends have improved and my dating life is progressing nice and slowly.

All in all, I feel life is moving along really fast and there are days where I wonder where time has gone...BIG differnece from how things were around BD.

Just stay positive people and keep on moving forward....