Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc


Seems to me she's GAL and involving you. In my book, those are positives.

Of course it's also a great example of Gal that you might follow...b/c you need to GAL more than I can say.

Come to think of it, Can you name 3 GAL things YOU are doing, as of now?

What NEW Behaviors can she see that would make her believe you are a different man than you were before? Can you name 2 or 3 specifics? It helps to see them in writing, so you know how to measure your progress or if you are staying on your chosen path.

And Keep up the good work!


Aside from my new job (and the several after-hours social gatherings as a result, I've engaged in no new GAL activities, unfortunately. frown

It's just really tough, because my new job requires me to pass several industry certifications within the 1st 12 months of employment, and I've been spending a lot of time studying and prepping for exams. This is just the beginning.

However, I am actively looking to join a local racquet club. I'm on their waiting list.


M: 15 years
BD: 6/25/14
EA/PA: starts 5/14/14
11/30/14 - A ends
5/15/15 - D is finalized.
11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!