Shall hate be fairer lodged than gentle love?

[Shakspr]

Doing fine. D is today. I left town over the weekend with my kids to see some family while W removed most of her belongings. Got some sleep!

I am currently relaxing at the house, getting ready to have my new (refurb) washer/dryer delivered.

Thanks for checking in. I haven't felt much like hanging out here on the boards anyway. I'll get more active when I have some fun GAL stuff to share and if anything new develops.

One thing I can tell all of you who are following this saga...find a way to drop the rope. W was still collecting clothes, and smaller items, last night. She was disoriented, tired, and incapable of holding a thought in her head. I stayed pretty calm and civil, agreed to what we should do the next few days with children (no changes, just confirmation) and ignored her otherwise.

No mindreading here. But that was the first time she seemed to allow the gravity of her actions to affect her visibly since BD. She sought me out several times with nothing to really say...she just seemed to want to be around me. Her aunt told me that she had been that way most of the weekend. Aunt is still praying for us and wants this to resolve in a restoration of marriage.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all today. My mind is at ease.