Its easy to feel fearless at the moment because I've already faced my biggest fear - telling my daughter. I'm sure there will be other bad spots along the way (to put it mildly) and that other fears will come to the forefront. For example, I haven't really absorbed that the OW has been spending quality time with my kids. Let's not forget he claimed to have started this relationship only 2 weeks before bomb drop and then promptly moved in with her a week or two later. For once, I am hoping he's actually lying and that its been going on much longer. I mean, how well does he even know this person?
Thanks for the advice, my gut said I shouldn't say anything to him, but there's no roadmap for any of this.
I'm sorry about your daughter. Obviously there is never a great time for this, but early teenagehood does seem like it would be particularly hard.
