"He has mentioned that he would do that. I just don't think he is quite there yet. "

This doesn't make sense. Did he say that he would go to C with you?

"When HE feels like it is something that will help HIM, then I think it would be worth spending the money.""

Who are YOU to judge that? If he wants to, then he has a right to go. And stop using the excuse of money as being the reason why you don't go to C. There are churches and other free marriage resources that can get you started.

You're still trying to control everything since Day 1.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER